[OPINION] Right’s equity: analysing both men’s and women’s behaviour before rape and misogyny

To properly begin this article, I should state that this is a very opinionated text. I still want to follow the anti-opinionated journalistic line, but when we talk about women, civil or human rights, I do am not open to any discussions, since I believe that we are all equal, independently of our skin colour, political view, religious belief, sex/gender/sexual identification, or any other characteristic considered as a principle of equity. So, if you are in disagree with these opinions, then I strongly recommend that you stop reading this article right here, right now – otherwise, you won’t read it to analyse it, but only to criticize it by whatever that goes against your beliefs.

Last week, the Brazilian population was wrecked by the barbarian news that an only-16-years-old girl was gang-raped by nothing but 33 adult men. No, you didn’t read it wrongly: a young teenager of sixteen years old was raped by thirty-three guys. Ok, I wait for you to take a breath and to analyse this fact for, at least, five seconds. Now you did analyse it, do you really have enough courage to defend the rapists? Well, the digital social medias recently proved that yes, we do have people who defend them and guilt the girl for her own rape. Yes, people are saying she asked to be raped for so many different, but highly frightening, motivations. If you are one of these people, please leave…the world.

Not only the victim is not guilty for her misfortunes, but also what happened to her was not only a crime – it was a simple repetition of the chauvinism intrinsic in our society since the dawn of times. Women have not been respected by men for a very long time, and moreover, men have reduced them to an inferior being in the social hierarchy. Yes, women have been underestimated by men, even though they have already proven themselves the strongest ones when, in times of war, they assumed the position of breadwinner to maintain their children, or when they perform the very same work of men, sometimes as good as them or even better, and they earn around 25% less than them.

A typical chauvinist meme

The main arguments against the raped girl tells that she was savagely attacked by this group of men due to her clothes, her lifestyle, her child, and her sexual preferences. It doesn’t matter if she was wearing short and low-cut clothes, it doesn’t matter if she lives in a slum in Rio de Janeiro and was befriend to drug dealers, it doesn’t matter if she was already a mother by the age of 16, and it also doesn’t matter if she had already had previous experiences with group sex: the girl wasn’t awake, wasn’t in control of her mental faculties, and didn’t allow in any moment this physical and sexual contact with any of these men.

Moreover, there is another important detail: the guys filmed their act of ultra violence and posted it on the web to boast their power of domination and to brag about their masculinity. No, you are not more of a man if you join this kind of practice: you are a completely stupid misogynist and criminal. The girl didn’t even allow the sexual intercourse with any of the men, so she was never aware that she was being filmed in that humiliating situation nor had she permitted the spreading of this audio visual material. Whoever have been part of this horrible scene must be punished: not only the men who gang-raped her, but also the one person who posted the video online and everyone who helped sharing this material.

If you receive any footage of this type of crime, or of any other situations like these, your first attitude must be warn the person who send it to you of all risks involving this and, after, deliver it to the police, so they can investigate the case. Do not ever continue on sharing this kind of material, because if you pass by this without taking any attitude, you are being accessary to the crime – please denounce the case and help in putting the guilty ones in jail.

Throughout the massive discussion awaken by this breaking news, there is, however, an argument given by the feminists that we might discuss it here: they say that every men is a potential rapist just because they were born this way, because they were born men. Ok, let’s take a breath to reflect about this... A couple of years ago, people used to state that black people were inferior to white ones because they were born this way – they were born dumb, they would always be unable of earning good jobs because they were not smart enough to reach the job market, and they were a condemned race and must be extinct. Does this sound bigoted, alienated? Well, if you say men are all potential rapists just because they were born with a penis, you are using the very same logic of slaveholders and Nazis. Men are not all misogynist assholes – only a few parcel of them, who ruin their imagery before society. You don’t have to rape a girl to prove your masculinity – if you prove yourself respectful to ladies and join their daily fight against misogynist behaviour, you are already being a better man than more than a half of your equals.

In order to end this opinionated article, I have some advices for both women and men about their understanding of rape and feminine independency. Ladies first: if you feel, at any time, violated by any men, whatever if in sexual, moral, violent or verbal contexts, you must stand your voice up and denounce the aggression – nobody should get away with the crimes committed; if the police doesn’t take you seriously or makes any attempt to deny your affirmations, you must denounce the policemen to their superior entities – their aim is to hear you and chase the criminals, not question the legitimacy of the violence you suffered; and, at last, remember you always can count on your equals, due to the sorority principle – all women must be together to defend each other from the misogyny. Now the gentlemen: if you still believe that the clothes women wear is an invitation to sexually harass them, you must look for mental treatment because you are one of the potential rapists mentioned above; if you believe that women must do whatever they want to, you are in a good way – you must help them reaching their liberty over misogyny by showing your male friends how not to be a jerk and how to respect the equality between men and women; if you have the responsibility of raising a son, please remember that he will follow your steps as a humankind – so make sure you are a god example to him by treating women the right way; and, if you are raising a daughter, please educate her to be strong, independent, and not to accept any inappropriate contact from any men – sometimes the danger is nearer than you would ever imagine, so you must be careful to be her example as a man. Summing up: out with chauvinism, in with feminine empowerment.

We need to talk about spittle

People in China have a disgusting habit, which the government is trying to change since the Beijing 2008 Olympic Games: spitting on the streets. For them, it's no mischief or bad attitude – if they feel having too much saliva in their mouth, they just spit it out wherever they are. Although all efforts from the government to stop this, Chinese people is still spitting on the streets when they're walking. The new generations were the first ones to be caught by this new wave, and they're the least spitter nowadays; the old ones are still connected to their freedom of spitting wherever they want to, so the worst ones to change the behavior are them.

Brazilians, otherwise, don't believe that spitting is a common thing to do on their daily basis. Moreover, spitting on the streets is seen as a disgusting thing and some people even recriminate the ones who do it regularly or hardly ever. But, since the impeachment voting process for the President Dilma Rousseff, on August 17th, spittles have become part of our routine, especially in the newspapers. The first case to be set at the news was the fight between Jair Bolsonaro and Jean Wyllys, two parliamentarians, at the voting, and the most recent one was a case involving the actor José de Abreu and a couple who were dining in the same restaurant as him and his wife, which happened last Saturday (23).

About Bolsonaro and Wyllys: I have already written about them and their conflicts in another chronicle, but some things must be clarified here. When the voting was happening at the Chamber of Deputies, previous things had happened between the two parliamentarians. Since Bolsonaro was eligible to preside the Human Rights Comission at the House, Wyllys was enraged with it because Bolsonaro is known for being an evangelical pastor, so a very homophobic figure, and Wyllys was in charge to discuss his Law Project about the enlargement of civil rights for homosexuals and all classes inside the LGBT community, which could be despised by the Directory of the House if Bolsonaro were ruling the commission. Because of this massive confusion, both are still struggling due to their opposite causes, and keep on criticizing each other whatever opportunities they have. After the hate speech given by Bolsonaro when declaring his vote for the impeachment of Rousseff, Jean Wyllys was outraged with his colleague and made a speech despising Bolsonaro's words before saying he was against the process. When Wyllys was going back to his place, Bolsonaro called him "faggy" and other dirty words against his enemy's sexuality. In response to the verbal aggression, Wyllys spat on Bolsonaro's face, being apart by his other colleagues quickly enough to avoid a physical shock between the two parliamentarians. In order to defend his father, Eduardo Bolsonaro, also a federal deputy and Jair's son, have spat on Wyllys's face.

Conclusions about this case: 1) was any of them right about the spittle? Response: absolutely nobody was doing right – Bolsonaro, dedicating his vote to a military torturer , was wrong, as long as Wyllys was also wrong for defending himself with a hideous and totally condemnable attitude (he had disrespected the rules of parliamentary decorum), and as long as Eduardo Bolsonaro was wrong too for repeating the same unsanitary gesture in response to this father's detractor (he also disobeyed the decorum); 2) is it right to have Bolsonaro as the Head of Human Rights Commission, considering all his scrutiny with homosexuals? Response: no, it's absolutely unacceptable having a parliamentary as Bolsonaro, known for his hate speeches and efforts to rebuke all social minorities, such as the LGBT community and the Afro-Brazilian religious, but he is a very powerful and influential figure among his political party, which makes him an important piece to balance the political game; and 3) is Wyllys a victim or a prosecutor? Response: Wyllys is both a victim of homophobia, and he was right in his effort to fight against this daily prejudice he suffers due to his sexuality, and a prosecutor of an illegal gesture inside an official head office of Brazilian government, because the Internal Regiment of the Chamber of Deputies considers behaviors like these completely unacceptable and passible of several legislative punishments.

About José de Abreu: before this event, Abreu was widely known for the great public as one of the biggest stars of the most watched TV channel in Brazil, Rede Globo. Since 1980, he is frequently seen acting in the soap operas produced by Globo, portraying from hideous villains to great protagonists, and also in many movies (he's a regular cinema actor since 1968). However, Abreu is also known for his strong political views and his recent involvements with hot-blooded discussions and controversies. He declares himself as a lefty-wing man, and has shown publicly his affection for the communism and the proposals done by the left-wing parties. On last Saturday (23), almost a week after the controversial spittle from Jean Wyllys to Jair Bolsonaro, José de Abreu wrote in his Twitter account that he was faced by a right-wing couple when he was having dinner with his wife in an expensive Japanese restaurant in Rio de Janeiro, who started provoking Abreu, mocking about his sympathy to the communism, and, outraged, he spat on the couple answering their provocations. Abreu also wrote that he would treat anyone who would mock on him the same way he did with the aforementioned couple, and dedicated his spittle to Wyllys, as a signal of complicity between them. The discussion about this case resides in two directions: the first is the right-wing people, who started writing outraging texts criticizing Abreu and his attitude, as they have already did when Wyllys spat on Bolsonaro, and the second is the left-wing people, who supported Abreu's attitude but forgot to say a word about his aggressions against the lady part of the couple.

Conclusions about this second case: 1) was José de Abreu right in spitting on the couple's face during the discussion? Response: absolutely not, because there are more polite ways to defend your cause in a discussion, and, by going on an impolite way, he definitely lost his point at the shock; 2) was the couple right on condemning publicly Abreu for defending the communism but keep on going to elite restaurants? Response: no, because Abreu has his own private life, and he shouldn't be accused of anything since the Federal Constitution safeguard him his right to do whatever he wants with his life, which means going wherever he would like to go to and defending any political view he feels the most appealed to; 3) should the leftists, being important defenders of social minorities, have said anything about the lady whom Abreu spat on? Response: these defenders are not obliged to take a part on every discussion about prejudice, feminism, homophobia, and all themes involving minorities, but this case was defended by them only by a single side (the political one), which meant to anyone else that the leftists were overlaying their political beliefs over the social causes they regularly defend; and 4) was Abreu's attitude defensible in the same way as Wyllys's? Response: absolutely yes, since none of them were right in their gestures and did no good spitting on their opponents – moreover, they weren't reasonable nor aren't they in the right way to defend their causes, because, again, being polite is the best first step to do well in a discussion.

Summing up: spittle isn't the most polite attitude when in a discussion, independently whether you are in a restaurant or in the Parliament, and shouldn't be encouraged nor supported. Both cases have their mistakes, big enough to make both situations indefensible under any pleas. Bolsonaro and Wyllys were one of the biggest shames of the impeachment voting at the Chamber of Deputies, so were Abreu and the rightist couple one of the biggest shames to both sides of political battle. Concluding: do as the new Chinese generations, and stop spittle.

Deputies and their struggles during the voting for Rousseff's impeachment process

The plenary session at the Chamber of Deputies on last Sunday (April 17th), in which the impeachment process against President Dilma Rousseff was voted favorable, was a huge mess throughout the whole period of nine hours that it took to happen. Exceptionally working during the weekend, the deputies were very pettish and exalted while live on national TV to declare their votes. Many parliamentarians were arguing in front of cameras and the press, and they also used their time at the microphone to criticize their colleagues and enemies while they were supposed to voted "yes" or "no" for the subject in discussion. In addition, while they were giving their speeches, most of representatives dedicated their votes for random people, from their relatives and wives, to militaries previously involved in tortures during the Brazilian dictatorial government, which led the Internet to make fun of them creating memes and all kinds of jokes and mocks. Unfortunately this is the imagery of Brazil abroad - a completely messy country, with corruption everywhere, and a frankly unstable democracy.

One of the most disturbing presences in the session was the Federal Deputy Paulo Maluf (PP/SP, standing for the Progressive Party in São Paulo). Maluf is a widely known figure for Brazilians - since the 1960s he had been involved with politics, having already been mayor in São Paulo city, governor in São Paulo estate, and many other occupations, but have been in decadence since the ends of the 1990s, when he had troubles while occupying the Town Hall of São Paulo and was firstly investigated under the accusations of active corruption during the Mensalão case, when he was one of the right-hand men of former President Luiz Inácio Lula da Silva, widely known for his surname Lula. Nowadays, Maluf is still a parliamentarian because nothing has been officially proven against him in previous investigations about his direct involvement with any corruption scandal; in the other hand, he is included in Interpol Red Diffusion since 2010, which means he cannot run abroad Brazil or, otherwise, he might risk being arrested in more than 180 countries. After the troubles caused by his involvement in Mensalão, Maluf was sidelined by Lula and the left-wing government; for this reason, he has been a wide critic of Rousseff's leading, voting favorable for her impeachment.

Another curious parliamentarian present in the voting was Federal Deputy Francisco Everardo Oliveira Silva, widely known for his surname Tiririca (PR/SP, standing for Republic's Party in São Paulo). Elected in 2010 to occupy a chair in the Chamber of Deputies, Tiririca wrote his name in the estate political history, being the third most voted deputy to be elected in the history of Brazil, earning more than 1,300 million votes at the time. Before being a politician, however, Tiririca was already famous in Brazil for his career as a humorist and circus clown - he had been presenting as a clown since his eight years old, and became a popular figure after signing a contract with Universal Music and recording the song "Florentina", which became a big hit and sold more than 1,5 million of copies. He was also a famous humorist on TV, appearing in most of known TV shows all over Brazil. When he was invited to launch his candidacy as federal deputy, his motto was a joke - or not: "Worst than that, it can't be", talking about the bad reputation of Brazilian political system. Curiously, Tiririca was, since he entered the Parliament, the most frequent parliamentarian, being present in 100% of plenary sessions - he was followed by only nine other deputies, from a total amount of 513. His vote favorable to Rousseff's impeachment was controversial - PT (standing for Worker's Party, the political party of Rousseff) was very upset after Tiririca broke his promise of voting against the process. Since then, he was taunted in an airport by some supporters of the party, claiming he is traitor and doesn't take seriously his job as a politician.

Finally, the most controversial event that happened during the voting session was the squabble between the parliamentarians Jean Wyllys (PSOL/RJ, standing for Socialism and Liberty Party in Rio de Janeiro) and Jair Bolsonaro (PSC/RJ, standing for Social Christian Party in Rio de Janeiro). Firstly, Bolsonaro was called by the President of Chamber of Deputies, Mr. Eduardo Cunha, to declare his vote for the impeachment process. The deputy made a angry speech about his dismissal with all of his colleagues who were favorable for Rousseff's continuity as President, and dedicated his "yes" to the militaries who took the Brazilian government in 1964, and also to Colonel Carlos Alberto Brilhante Ustra, ex-chief of DOI-CODI, responsible for all tortures throughout the dictatorial period. Rousseff is widely known for being an ex-guerrilla fighter, who was arrested in 1970 and tortured in prison; so, Bolsonaro's speech was seen as a disrespectful twaddle against the President, and now he's being sued for his words. After this, Wyllys, known for being an ex-participant in TV reality show "Big Brother" and for his work as a deputy for the LGBT community, was called to declare his vote and, once there, made a speech about the foolishness of the impeachment process, hailed Rousseff's government, and declared "no" to her exit. When he was finishing his speech, Bolsonaro, who was standing behind Wyllys, cursed him by offending his sexuality. In response, Wyllys spat on Bolsonaro's face, and also took a spit from Eduardo Bolsonaro, Jair's son and also a federal deputy. For yet unknown reasons, the Legislative Police didn't interfere in none of the confusions between the parliamentarians during the voting process, despite constant appeals from Eduardo Cunha.

Certainly some conclusions can be extracted from these events: first, the Chamber of Deputies wasn't ready at all for this messy plenary session, as seen on images from that day, showing a truly messed up room with many men stood up and screaming to each other; second, Brazilian politicians are covered in mud until their necks, which can be inferred from their curricula as parliamentarians and their previous activities before entering the politics; and third, prejudice and religious extremism are both cancers for the proper functioning of Brazil as a serious country, and for human development , seen that none of them help in teaching kids about great social values. As long as it is completely unacceptable that a parliamentarian uses the figure of a torturer as an example of conduct, it is as unacceptable as another parliamentarian spits on a colleague's face during an official and professional event, being massively registered by all kinds of media outlets. As long as having a representative being chased by Interpol is insanely outrageous, having a President heavily involved with corruption scandals and the biggest robbery in a public enterprise (Petrobras, the oil company which originated the investigation under Rousseff's impeachment process) is as outrageous as Maluf still being eligible to hold public offices.

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